You are married but thinking of being single. Yes, divorce is an answer for married couples in California who are tired of married life and looking for freedom. But is it the right answer?
Unraveling a marriage is not easy. Divorce can be complicated, even when uncontested.
You need to fully understand the dos and don’ts of divorce. If you are ready to move on from your marriage, you need to make the right decisions. Here are some mistakes you need to avoid.
Letting Emotions Drive Decisions
Divorce is deeply personal, but treating it only as an emotional battle often leads to poor outcomes. Some spouses fight endlessly over small possessions or refuse to compromise simply to “win.” Unfortunately, this can prolong the process, increase legal fees, and create unnecessary stress. The best approach is to focus on what truly matters, whether that be your financial security, your children’s well-being, your long-term goals, or something else.
Skipping Legal Guidance
Some people try to navigate divorce without an attorney to save money, but this often backfires. Divorce involves complex issues like property division, custody rights, and spousal support. Without legal guidance, you risk signing an unfair agreement that could affect your life for years to come. Having a lawyer review documents ensures your rights are protected.
Failing to Understand Finances
Divorce divides up a household’s financial life. Many people underestimate how important it is to understand every aspect of their money situation. This includes debts, mortgages, retirement accounts, investments, and tax responsibilities. Collecting financial records early and working with an attorney or financial advisor ensures you do not give up property you are entitled to.
Hiding Assets
It may be tempting to hide money or property in the hope of keeping it out of the divorce settlement. However, family courts have strong discovery processes, and hidden assets often come to light. If you are caught, you could face financial penalties, and it can even affect custody or support decisions. Transparency is always the better path.
Rushing the Process
You may just want to “get it over with,” but rushing may cause you to give up valuable property rights or agree to unfair custody arrangements. Taking time to carefully review everything helps prevent long-term regret. The consequences of your decisions can last for decades.
Not Planning for Life After Divorce
While in the throes of divorce, do not forget to plan for the future. Many newly divorced people underestimate living expenses or forget about health insurance, taxes, and retirement savings. A realistic post-divorce budget helps you avoid financial stress. Think about all the aspects that come with being single so you can start your next chapter with confidence.
Contact Us Today
Divorces can be complex. You need to know what to do and what not to do to make sure things go smoothly.
The Law Offices of Oliver Gutierrez in Redwood City can help you proceed with a divorce. We know the laws and can help you avoid common mistakes. Need a Spanish-speaking family law attorney? Se habla español. Schedule a consultation with our office today by filling out the online form or calling (650) 285-1673.